Yep... we almost did it. Moved. To a whole new place. Same state, but not close to Atlanta. Yep. New schools, new place where we knew no one, new church. It was exciting, nerve-wracking, and stressful all at once.
But, the key word above is almost. We are not moving.
So, with that being said, let me tell you all about the woulda-coulda-shoulda move! Stephen was offered a position in Savannah back right before Christmas. He hadn't applied for this job... the hiring guy used to work at Stephen's company and has talked to Stephen for years about wanting him to come on board. This was an opportune time and he brought it up to Stephen while he was on a business trip down there. When Stephen told me about it, my first instinct was he...ck no. But, we looked at the positives- no more traveling, base salary-plus-commission (well, that could be a pro or a con), potential to own the company in the future and set us up for a good retirement, a job he would enjoy, a great boss, etc. Stephen talked to several people who are in a position like the one he was offered, and who knew the guy that would be S's boss, and everyone told him to go for it. We started to get excited about a change.
We did a lot of research online. First was to find the best suburb in which to live. We found a great town about 25 minutes from Savannah- great schools, a great community. Then, on to finding houses. The area we found was very different from where we live now. Here, there are smaller neighborhoods with larger lots; 3-car garages; no vinyl siding; few swim/tennis communities because the n'hoods are smaller. More trees and greenery. There, there were about 6 communities in the whole town. Each community had several different n'hoods in them, all that shared a swim/tennis. Lots were small (like, .5 of an acre was rare!); all houses had vinyl siding (I'm thinking because it's close to the ocean?); no basements (it's so flat!); 2-car garages (lots were too small to have 3); and they were more expensive! So, we were looking at a 5 bedroom (with bonus), vinyl sided 2 story house on .25 acre and it would have been mid-300s at the lowest.
Stephen and I took a trip down there to check the area out. We found a neighborhood that we
LOVED (!!!) but the size house we would need would have been way out of our price range. We didn't really fall in love with anything else, but we found a house and neighborhood that would work. It was right by a brand new school, a park, and a walking trail around a huge lake. It was a new neighborhood, so it would take about 6 months to build.
We knew we would have to act fast. We had a realtor come to our current house, not to do anything officially, but just to give us an idea of what we could price it for. I had started to pack boxes. It was like a done deal, y'all.
Then, some strange turns of events happened. The hiring guy in Savannah had talked to someone at his current company, telling him the plans of wanting to bring Stephen on board. (the new job isn't with his current company, but with an ally). Long story short, a guy who's a VP at Stephen's company caught wind and called Stephen, saying he didn't think Savannah was the right market for him. That prompted Stephen to call a guy who used to work that same job in Savannah, and that guy told him the reality of working down there. Basically, he worked his tail off for way less than he was making at Stephen's company, and Savannah is a very protective community that wants to work only with locals. It's hard to get your foot in the door.
It's funny- the first 10 people Stephen talked with were all like- yeah! Do it! It'll be great! But those last 2 conversations put the nail in the coffin. It wouldn't be worth it moving all the way down there to work longer hours for less money. Not a smart move. It was a Godsend that the right people found out and that Stephen was able to speak with them.
So, Savannah is off the table! But it was kind of fun thinking about starting over somewhere new. Who knows where life will take us, and I'm content here... for now... (though Zillow and I have weekly visits, just in case something else comes up!)