This summer, Stephen and I have started Sydney with a "chore chart". We wanted to teach her responsibility and about the rewards/costs that occur if you don't do what you're supposed to do.
So, what chores can a 3 year-old be responsible for? Laundry? Naah. Unloading the dishes? Probably not. We came up with 5 basic things that we wanted Sydney to do on a daily basis. I made a chart with coordinating pictures to represent each chore. At the end of each day, she gets a sticker next to the picture for doing the chore. Then, she gets paid one nickel for each thing she does. A potential $.25 per day investment... something I can handle.
Her chores are:
1. Cleaning up the toys downstairs.
2. Taking her plate/cup/silverware to the sink after every meal.
3. Cleaning up her room.
4. Being nice to her sister.
5. Not sucking her thumb.
Ok, that last one isn't exactly a
chore, per se, but it's been a nice addition to the list. :)
These are her first couple of chore charts:
Pretty good overall, minus the thumb-sucking and the occasional not being nice to her sister. Things have improved in the thumb-sucking department with the removal of Monkey... yes, that's right... Stephen has banned Sydney from Monkey and she has been surprisingly okay with it. As Sydney says, Monkey "makes her suck her thumb" and sometimes even "puts her thumb in her mouth" himself. Bad Monkey.
It's been a pretty cool thing to do... Sydney loves putting her nickels in her piggy bank, which has gotten to be ridiculously heavy. We finally decided to cash it in, and, although there was a bunch of coins/dollar bills in there from before the whole chore thing got started, there was a total of a little over $20!
We ventured to Walmart to spend the money. After spending $2 in the Walmart game room...
...and after walking the aisles and asking the price on nearly every item in the toy department, this is what she decided on:
She spent right at $20 total!
I love not having to clean up after the girls downstairs or in Sydney's room. Cha-ching!