Well, my first full official week of summer did not start out as I had hoped. I had envisioned blowing up our red-neck pool in the backyard, running around outside, getting some good, happy bonding time in.
Monday was gloomy and overcast with some showers, so there really wasn't much going-outside time. I had two extremely grumpy girls, and I was one very thin-patienced mother. It was quite the long day, to say the least. I made the decision rather quickly that I am
not cut out to be a stay-at-home-mom!
Come to find out that Sydney had a fever and wasn't feeling well. Her tummy and my tummy both hurt. Taylor was acting okay, just not her normal self. I think we were all just feeling yucky and our attitudes definitely reflected that.
I took Taylor to daycare Tuesday and kept Sydney home (24 hour rule with a fever). (**Side note- the girls are going to school 2 days a week this summer). When Sydney started screaming at breakfast that her "neck" hurt (a.k.a. throat), I called the doc and they got me right in. The verdict: strep. I told them that Taylor had had a fever the Friday before and projectile vomited at school, and had the fever through Sunday AM but then it went away. They recommended I get her checked for strep as well. I went and got her from daycare, and her verdict: not strep, but Hand/Foot/Mouth disease. (man, gotta love daycare!)
So, I felt a little guilty for my thin patience on Monday. I got the girls started on their medicines to get them de-contagioused (is that a word?) ASAP. Wednesday morning, I kept both home and decided to brave the stores. We had a great girls' morning out, going to some shops, eating lunch out, and then topping it off with some frozen yogurt. We went to church that night for a summer grow group they are doing and volunteered in the nursery. I literally was watching kids from 6 AM until about 8:45 PM. Can you say
tired??
Thursday, since Sydney wasn't considered contagious anymore, I took her to school and kept Taylor with me. And on Friday, they both went to school.
I've learned a few things this summer. First of all, how absolutely exhausted and tired I get so easily. I know I'm about 6 months pregnant, I know it's hot outside, and I know I have 2 toddlers to chase around. But this is a kind of exhaustion I have not felt... possibly ever? My whole body- arms, legs, everything literally have no energy. Last summer, I kept the girls out from daycare completely and it was so not that hard. I know I wasn't pregnant, and Taylor was only about 6 months old, but it's amazing to me to see the difference a year can make.
Secondly, it is so much easier to handle one kid at a time, rather than 2! When I had Sydney by herself, or Taylor by herself, it was super easy. They do a great job at entertaining each other, but lately it's not the kind of entertaining you want. (Hey, Taylor, climb on my bed and let's jump on it!) You literally take your eyes off them for a minute and they will be getting into some trouble,or someone is getting hurt.
I've also learned that I need to get into teacher-mode when having the girls home with me all day. We never really have game plans on the weekends, and the girls do just fine. But, I think I'm going to have to plan out each day, and what activities we are going to do and when. The fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants kind of day just doesn't seem like it's going to work.
OK, that's my blabbing for tonight. I thought I'd share some pictures from my phone that I just uploaded. :)
And here's to a better week next week! And to health!
Toddler park with Taylor.
Coloring time.
Yogurt.
Sydney dressed herself... shoes included! My pretty girl!
Pedicures with Sydney.
This completely melted my heart... this was on the wall in Sydney's class at church.
Julieann's birthday party at McDonald's.
Lollipops make everything better! (post-doctor visit)